Isn't it sad that those bullies only get older, and start using their words and manipulation rather than their fists?
Something I've struggled with is the line between extending grace to people and allowing myself to be walked all over. In trying to find that line, I have discovered that sometimes allowing relationships to die is the only healthy thing to do. And let me tell you, in the last few days, I have realized that sometimes that's an incredibly freeing thing!
If you search the scriptures, there are numerous verses cautioning Christians about keeping the company of liars and cheaters (or bullies..). Part of me feels that in cutting a person out, I am giving up on my opportunity to witness.
However, it is NOT God's will for our life to be manipulated and belittled.
Kel -- this is SO interesting that you wrote about this last night. I am currently trying to deal with some bullies in my classroom. Its really hard to deal with when, as the teacher, I often don't see the bullying happen. And its also hard to discern how to best handle a situation...especially when only words have been used, no fists. Some tough things to think about!
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